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Originally Posted by JustJess
I've thought about the swinger club idea, but I don't know if I (we) are ready for that... Ideally, I'd like things to be more organic than that, like what happened at the tractor pull (tractor pull! not a place I expected linked to swinging!!)... and I think you're right about the couples thing, but unfortunately, I'm bi, Quadro isn't, so that's not really an option unless the other guy isn't either... more and more complicated, no?
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Hubby and I are "soft" swingers....we kiss, touch, fondle, etc...just no sex with other people. We were lucky and found a couple that we are friends with that are experimental in this way too...and neither men are bi but it's working fine so far. There are a lot of internet resources on swinging, etc. and there are women out there who would be interested in something like this, but I think it would be harder to find in person than finding someone on the internet. You could always try to find someone in your area online that is interested in this sort of situation and meet her and get to know her a little before you commit to anything. Just a thought!!