Different things work for different people, what works for Nikki and what works for Lurkette and what works for me might not work for you, it's about finding your own path
I have the opposite . . . i'm a bit jealous

, so i haven't shared my husband yet . . . not that i wouldn't if the right situation came along. So kudos to you to be beyond that insecurity that still plauges me and that i work on

My husband is the exact same way you are though and is now encouraging me to go out and explore my newly found bisexual side.
If you want to share him . . . then do so . . . (although, don't ya wannt be in on it too? I mean . . . women are lovely)
my husband and i are best friends and have been for 10 years . . . and
Sex is just sex . . . it's pleasure and experiences.
I do not define my marriage but what i choose to exclude . . . but what i choose to add to it. But that's my personal choice.
so when you say how would i approach this? Do you mean with your relationship or literally, how would get get a hot women to have sex with your husband?
sweetpea