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I don't know how I'd approach this - I'd probably be more likely to give ratbastid permission and then let him approach whomever the woman was he was interested in. Or, we were interested in for him. If it was going to be a surprise for him (hmmmm....) I guess I'd frame it that way - I'd like to give my husband a little treat, are you up for it?
I'm glad I'm not the only female who isn't terribly jealous. I was until about a year, year & 1/2 ago, but we've gone through a lot since then that has really made me rethink my opinions on monogamy and love. Love's not a finite commodity - if I give some to someone, it doesn't mean I have less to give to someone else. And sex is...just sex.
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