I agree with sexymama, sometimes it really is just easier for the child that way. Less confusion and what not. I however do understand your point in the senario you stated above. The thing I don't get is, is it a long drive to pick him up and take himback to your place? I'd want to be able to comfort my sick child whenever possible, so I don't see (unless it's more then just a cold) why he still couldn't be with you. I don't know, as I am not in that situation, but that's my opinion.
As for the court system and why they don't push more visits, it's a sad thing that they have a tendency to let the parents beef it out because there can be so many outstanding circumstances and in the end the child suffers.
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