Time with the child is most important, you are right! When you ask children what they want most from their parents (especially adult children) they will say time. However, there are times when it is easier that the other parents is uninvolved. Sadly, I wish my ex would get out of the picture; but despite my personal feelings, he is allowed to see our children almost whenever he desires. He just makes things very difficult on them and there are consequences that I have to deel with whenever he finishes seeing them.
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If you can go deeply into lovemaking, the ego disappears. That is the beauty of lovemaking, that it is another source of a glimpse of god
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