Thanks for your words of wisdom. They helped.
I know this problem is 90% me and 10% the issue with my daughter. I just have to put myself in check I guess. It's not all that bad. I don't take her to school every nite, just a couple out of the week.
My husband and I have talked to her about her current and past behavior. And my husband is VERY BIG on communicating - that's sort of his forte. Right now, he's kind of giving her the silent treatment because he wants her to know that what she did was wrong and she needs to "grow up". He wants her to know that we're upset about her actions.
Thanks again, I really appreciate it.