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Finding another woman who might be interested, I don't really know how to go about that part, as both women I've been with approached me first. How Grace and I got together is in my journal, but I don't think that would really be helpful, as she's exclusively lesbian rather than bi, and I was apparently giving off signals that planes passing overhead could spot. Unless you'd be interested in a lesbian? That wouldn't work for the threesome with Martel, though.
In any case, the others have covered that. I wouldn't recommend a lesbian bar to start, as those can be a bit of a meat market.
As for flirting, well, it's not much different from doing it with a guy. Make eye contact. Share a little information about yourself. Ask questions about her. Touch her in small, casual ways over and over again. Make a show of checking her out, but don't linger; be appreciative without going over into creepy. Think about all those little things that you like when a guy does them when flirting with you, and do them with her. If she's receptive, she'll give you signals, and you can play it by ear from there.
You could probably find a woman or two here to practice online flirting with. I'd volunteer, but I'm taken at the moment, but I can say it's a lot of fun even when there's no real life contact.
And showing some skin works with women who are interested, too.
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