i've had many a conversation about this...and the collective conclusion of the bi-discussion group i attend is that very few people have bi-dar...the ability to spot other bisexuals. part of the problem is that there isn't a very good way of presenting/performing bisexuality that wouldn't just be assumed to be homosexuality.
as a married couple you're also going to be assumed to be hetero...so overriding that signal may be tricky. look for links in to the GLBTQ community where you live-not necessarily dating or social stuff even first...with some friends and connections, the process of finding new folks from there gets a whole lot easier.
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