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Originally Posted by zen_tom
What were the issues between your brother and your parents that caused him to flare up like that?
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I'm sorry but this may sound like I'm an immature or being childish but ... this has always been about HIM and I'm sorta sick of it. It does not matter to me what his issues were because, (obviously I did not make this clear in the original post) but he got in AXE WIELDING fights. These were serious physical altercations. There is no issue on this earth that requires that kind of action.
This IS pretty damaging stuff but couselling seems a little beyond where I am willing to go with this. I have been distancing myself from mother's emotional rollarcoaster and will, I am sure, eventually stop talking to her. The only thing that is stopping me from cutting all ties is this childish hope that things will change and the knowledge that the fight that ends it will be horrible. I just can't take that fight at this point. That fight is going to be hell.
Thanks again everyone for your thoughts...