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I'd be careful about writing people off too quickly, but I'm also interested to hear what these fights were all about? What were the issues between your brother and your parents that caused him to flare up like that?
You know, every one is just trying to get by, and if your brother had a difficult time of it, that's a shame. If he upset you and your sisters, then that too is a shame. Understand why he did those things, from his point of view, and that should help make it easier to forgive him for simply being human. If you understand why he's like that, you should be better able to help him in the times he needs it (i.e. when he's about to get in a fight)
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