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I know it's hard. I hang around with a bunch of great guys, but only two of them have girlfriends, and I'm one of them.
I think their problem is that what they enjoy doing doesn't really involve too many females, at least not in our area. Magic the Gathering, RPGs, and videogames don't necissarily get you chicks.
But, I think there must be hope somewhere. Perhaps if you tried visiting other communities outside of where you have been, then your social circle will expand. The more your social circle expands, even if it's only on a "I recognize your face and maybe know your name" basis, it helps.
And just a word of advice, don't be too blunt or too shy. A nice medium ground is best. Don't say "Hey, wanna fuck" but don't just look at the person you're interested in all night. Give yourself a chance.
Good luck!
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