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Stiltzkin · 04-13-2005, 08:04 PM

This may be extremely obvious to everyone here, but I just recently realized it.
People hook up with other people that are in an organization or some group of people. Let me explain by offering examples:
~I kinda knew this one girl who had many boyfriends, and all of them were co-workers from her job at a pizza place she used to work at.
~One of my friends was dating a girl he met as a co-worker when he worked at Best Buy.
~Band people in highschool usually date eachother exclusively.
~This girl I know is going out with some guy she met in church choir, and she is also in that choir.
~My friend who worked at a game retail company went out with one of his employees (yeah I know it's against the rules or whatever).

My point is that... people get together in groups, talk about the stuff related to that group (I guess), get to know eachother, and then go out.
I think dance clubs or whatever they are called, and bars, are condensed versions of this. For example, in a church choir, you don't just hook up with other people, you also sing. At Best Buy, you don't just hook up with people, you also work. But at clubs and bars, you just hook up (or be miserable and drink your woes away, if that's your intention).
But that's my point: most people hook up with people who have some kind of group/organization in common.

The reason why I say all this is because I'm almost 20 years old and I've never had a girlfriend in my life. Never done anything. No sex, no kissing. My whole sexual life is masturbation, a lap dance that I didn't even like all that much, and being hugged by some girl who thought I was cuddly but who didn't want to go out with me. Frankly, that's pretty crappy.

I'm not part of any organizations or anything; this is probably my problem.

As for me, however, I don't have time to join any organizations or anything, because of school+picking up my brothers from school. All these places are too damn far away and the commute takes a lot of my time away.

I hope this is helpful for other insanely lonely people out there who have time for organizations.

04-13-2005, 08:04 PM	#1 (permalink)
Stiltzkin Junkie	Observations This may be extremely obvious to everyone here, but I just recently realized it. People hook up with other people that are in an organization or some group of people. Let me explain by offering examples: ~I kinda knew this one girl who had many boyfriends, and all of them were co-workers from her job at a pizza place she used to work at. ~One of my friends was dating a girl he met as a co-worker when he worked at Best Buy. ~Band people in highschool usually date eachother exclusively. ~This girl I know is going out with some guy she met in church choir, and she is also in that choir. ~My friend who worked at a game retail company went out with one of his employees (yeah I know it's against the rules or whatever). My point is that... people get together in groups, talk about the stuff related to that group (I guess), get to know eachother, and then go out. I think dance clubs or whatever they are called, and bars, are condensed versions of this. For example, in a church choir, you don't just hook up with other people, you also sing. At Best Buy, you don't just hook up with people, you also work. But at clubs and bars, you just hook up (or be miserable and drink your woes away, if that's your intention). But that's my point: most people hook up with people who have some kind of group/organization in common. The reason why I say all this is because I'm almost 20 years old and I've never had a girlfriend in my life. Never done anything. No sex, no kissing. My whole sexual life is masturbation, a lap dance that I didn't even like all that much, and being hugged by some girl who thought I was cuddly but who didn't want to go out with me. Frankly, that's pretty crappy. I'm not part of any organizations or anything; this is probably my problem. As for me, however, I don't have time to join any organizations or anything, because of school+picking up my brothers from school. All these places are too damn far away and the commute takes a lot of my time away. I hope this is helpful for other insanely lonely people out there who have time for organizations. __________________ The most important thing in this world is love.