Well, I'd say its more that when we're having sex, I don't want to come until I'm ready.
Sometimes I feel really on top of it and feel like I could keep going however damn long I wanted to, in which case it feels really good to say "yeah, I could keep going for another hour, but I'm going to come right now because I want to, or because Sage wants me to."
Then other times, I feel like I'm going to come whether I want to or not.
It just provides more pleasurable sensation in the first case.
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