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I don't mean this is as a slight, but that saying is just complete BS courtesy of Richard Bach. If you love someone, you don't let them go. Their leaving in the first place is not that one person is "allowing" the other to leave, it is that the person leaving no longer wants the relationship. As it applies to you, Czernobog, this would mean you might want to think about cutting your losses and begin to move on. It's harsh but it's better than living in a fantasy world.