04-08-2005, 07:26 PM
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Tilted
Location: Astoria, Queens, NY
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Originally Posted by Suave
First of all, getting a job and getting out (effectively running away from your problems) is NOT the first and best option. The first and best option is discussing it with your parents in a mature fashion.
Secondly, parents don't necessarily treat their children like adults just because the children act like adults. Many times, the curfews, etc, are in place purely out of emotional security issues the parents have.
Thirdly, saying that your parents don't owe you anything is a bit much. They brought you into this world, and while you should be thankful for what they do give you, it is also, in my opinion, their responsibility to provide for you and try to give you the best start on life they can.
I do agree with the comment that parents are doing their best however, despite what might be seen as mishaps or screwups. They think it's best, so don't fault them for it in that regard.
I just had to make this post because of how strongly I disagreed with the majority of your statements. Not trying to bust your balls or anything, we just happen to have a difference of opinion.
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well you would think that 18-20 years of that would be enough...
and yes I know that it takes some people more time to get adjusted and all that but im talking about on average..
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