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Old 04-08-2005, 09:51 AM   #1 (permalink)
blktour
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Need advice.

Ok im sorry if this doesnt go here..

Well i have this friend. i am 21 years old.. and we have been friends since 2nd grade. and we dated in elementary (lol funny huh?) and then in junior high twice. so we didnt talk in high school ( i guess i was "too busy")but we did talk on and off.. every once in a while after highschool so now here i am..
one day i decided to call her.. ( i work at a phone company so i looked up her number since we both didnt have eachothers number.. ) so we started talking and we kicked it off really good.! She said she was happy that i went out of my way to find her number so i dont feel so bad for "stalking" now i asked why she never wanted to talk to me before and she said that she didnt want to get my now ex girlfriend jealous because my ex was a real jealous type.. (done with that though.) So i tell her that she is out of my life now and so she was HAPPY FOR ME! lol.. so we have talked for about 2 weeks and she calls me everyday! and she calls when she says she is going to call. she calls me everyday on her lunch and everyday when she gets home. Now this girl is great! she can relate to me.. and knows how i am, we like the same things and we joke around and get along great.

Now, she has a kid that is 5months old and the dad is out of her life. He is paying child support but he is not in her or the childs life.
we talk about what we are gonna do in the future and alot of the things we say match up. So that just gets me thinking about me and her together.
is that wrong?
now her family loves me and all the men she has been with have been bad guys. So i go over to her home one day and her mother and grandmother say that they love me and that i was the sweetest guy that ever met her. that felt good.
Everyone in elementry school and in junior high, and high school and my family and her family say that we will end up getting married!
so i brought it up and said, "Desteny! we need to get married so everyone can have their wish!" she said. "i know huh? everyone says we will get married so we might as well do it!"
now im sure that she was joking but who knows.
I just wanted everyones advice. i really dont know what i should do?
she is my friend and i like that but i would like try to be with her, but im not sure if she is for it. I dont know how to bring it up as to not make her feel uncomfortable and i dont want to be shot down, because that would feel akward to be her friend.

so what do you all think?
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