Cleanliness issues... am I too strict?
Maybe it's just me, but I have a very hard time getting into sexual relations with someone if they haven't showered a few hours (and by few, I mean 2-3) beforehand.
It's not that the people I've been with have had bad hygeine (in fact, quite the opposite), but there's something that just turns me off knowing that things aren't clean. Vaginal areas can be quite, for lack of a better word, "stale" after a few hours, if you know what I mean.
Personally, if I know I'm gonna be doing something later in the day, I make it a point to take a shower so I'm all freshened up. Others aren't always the same way and, like I said, it can be quite a turn off.. especially if they expect you to go down on them.
Whenever I do something with someone, the first thought that goes through my head is "..was their last shower at 9 AM? Damn.. it's fuckin 8:30 PM.. that's almost 12 hours and they've been walkin around and stuff all day.."
Hahah, so yeah... is this abnormal? Is anyone else like this?
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