Age: 20
Sex: The one with a penis.
What is game? What does it mean to have game? Give an example.
Game is the ability to sell one's self to the opposite sex (or the same sex if that's how you swing), not necessarily based on one's actual personality traits, but on what they know/think the other person wants to hear/see/perceive. It is also confidence and a quasi-predatory outlook on persons with whom one is interested in sexually/romantically. No examples off-hand.
Why bother to have game? What is the point?
The point of having game, when one is consciously focusing on having it (rather than coming by it naturally and possibly being unaware of it), is generally to engage in sexual relations, as well as to increase one's status among his peers. (I'm focusing on guys because I won't even pretend to know the reasons for women).
Do men or women tend to exhibit more game?
Neither. It depends on the individual.
What if any do you think are negative aspects of having game?
Most of the time, it's fake. There are some people who are just genuinely really likeable by a large portion of the opposite sex, but they're pretty rare. I don't like facades.
Does game have use far into a relationship or just at the beginning?
It can be used throughout. If it's required at the beginning, and is a facade, then the relationship will likely end if the person with game decides to stop using it.
Where did you learn you ideas about this? Friends, parents, books, life?
Learned mostly from talking to my peers, and probably from popular entertainment (through music, television, and film).
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