Ok, on dates this is the general rule I follow.
You dont have to worry about making the first move. Women do that anyways in a VERY subtle way. Let them break the touch barrier. By that, it's something as her touching your arm when you're talking to her (like when you make her laugh), or her arm gently grazing yours. Women do this ALL the time and most men never pick up on it.
Dont break the barrier before any of this occurs, while many women dont care, many more women are quick to feel impinged upon. Women get touched every day by men trying to hit on them, so wait until she gives you the subtle go ahead.
As far as that, dont do something as cliche as the arm around in the movie theatre. Things like when you're walking into a building together, gently put your hand in the small of her back (trust me, many women have told me they love it) like you're leading her. Do little things like that, they're not overtly "I'm into you", but she WILL get it.
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