Hey sounds like I'm in a similar boat as you are. Its been about 2 years or so since my last relationship/fling (cant think of a better word) and Ive been enjoying it. But I love my life right now, I kinda hate my job sometimes but I figure thats normal. But I suppose this might change soon as I am avidly pursuing this hotty at my work (only problem is that she is going out with a complete dick).
So anyways just enjoy the free life. And honestly do like greeneyes says and make an action plan to improve your life, and just drill those things into your head. I made a similar one for myself: play more guitar, play less computer, and work out more. Any I just run that through my head alot... so far Ive made good on all of them except the less computer thing... so that means I dont sleep alot now!
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