Astrocloud

Okay, I can announce that it's been over a year since I've done it. I'm not exactly sure why except that I can definitely say that it is much easier for a man to be celibate than it is a woman... (Technically women get hit on much more than men.)

And I'm not sure if it's intentional or not. Yeah, I'd like to have sex. It was even offered to me by a few women that I just plain wasn't interested in... I just somehow see the opposite sex as having all these traps. Like, I'm not going to have sex if there's a commitment and I'm not going to have sex if there is NO commitment.

So basically there is no way I can have sex right now. Unless by some miracle I meet the one -which I'm not expecting.

I told an old college friend (who is a married female) of mine that I was "taking a break" from the whole dating scene. I'm not even sure if that is technically true. Look how easy it is to "take a break": don't do anything and nothing will happen. I mean all these guys I know are going out night after night just continually hunting for these women. I would guesstimate that only about 5% of their continual harrassment of the fair sex even erupts into anything.

And it's not like I'm scared of being shot down. I just feel like I stopped caring. I mean I have other issues to worry about. The #1 issue is that my life sucks and that has to change. My life would be better with someone cool in it -but these women aren't hanging around where I am so I'm looking at another year or two of no-nookie. Even if I did meet "the one" would I even recognize her?

So anyways I'm just throwing this out there. Maybe someone could agree or disagree with my perspective. I'm not even really sure if this belongs in Sexuality.