Well, A- you're PMSing, so having the feelings you do is normal. B- why don't you tell each other how you feel? I know that there's the excuse of "not wanting to get hurt" but if you two already know in your hearts how you feel about each other, if you break up now (not that you're going to, but hypothetically if it happened) then you're still gonna be hurt. You're past the point of it not being a big deal. And then there's the "taking it slow" thing, but Sue, babe, he drove how many hours to come see you? And I'm assuming there was some physically intimate behavior in there somewhere? And you think you two are starting to love each other? I mean, hello, that is you two going somewhere in this relationship, not taking it slow!
Babe, when it hits you, it hits you, and you can't escape it, no matter how many excuses you or he comes up with. If you're in love with him, or just love him, either way, you KNOW, and you don't know how you know, but you do. And you can't run from that, because it'll tear you apart. Talk to this boy about how you feel- don't do it on PMS week, cause then you'll get about a bajillion times more emotional than you should
Sue, go with how you feel, deep down inside, and stop trying to come up with excuses why you shouldn't follow your heart!
And, if you're still worried about "taking things too fast," Martel and I practially ripped each other's clothes off twenty minutes after our first kiss- We had been waiting out whole lives for each other and once we had found each other, we were ready to get on with the fun stuff!!
Good luck, us ladies of TFP *wub* you!!
