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The red flags of doom go up.
There are three things that stand out and bother me about what you have said:
1) He lies to you. -- Completely unacceptable.
2) He denies you pleasure with toys because from what you describe he is jealous of the toys? -- Again, completely unacceptable and selfish!
3) He uses guilt as a weapon against you, in return making you experience shame. -- Outrageous!!
He should respect the fact that him looking at porn makes you feel uncomfortable, and respect you enough to actually refrain, compromise, and for God's sake not LIE!
He should never ever ever lie to you about anything.
He should want to make you feel good and allow you to use toys (or teddy, how cute!!) if you like them without making you feel guilt and shame about it, in short being a total hypocrite!
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