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innovis · 03-31-2005, 10:37 PM

First part, about condoms.

Basically I let my girlfriend put the condom on when I was hard, accidentally got a wrinkle in it, she spends about 2-3 minutes working me in while on top, then says the wrinkle feels uncomfortable, so I try to get the wrinkle out but I cannot, and all the while "hes" unstimulated and like bleh, so of course he migrates south for the winter. So then shes like "do you not want to do it? Isn't my vagina enough of a turn on for you" or somesuchness, which I think is a really insensitive thing to say, but anyways, she won't "fluff" me to get me hard unless I go wash off the condom lube, so I do, come back, put on the condom. She gets on top, starts working it in again, he gets bored, 1 because there is pretty much no friction and 2 because when she is on top she does pretty much nothing to stimulate him. She does this kind of movement which manages to use all of her leg muscles but not move her vagina at all, because she hasn't learned after me telling her at least 20 times to do it a different way, and it feels like I'm just being bounced upon. At any rate, as I can feel him dieing again, I tell her to let me get on top, I try to get him in but he won't go because its too soft (the condom is still squeezing me when I'm unhard), so I try to wet her a little with some saliva (which I will ask about in the second part), and I get him in and he gets hard again. Eventually he dies again though.

I am wondering if perhaps the condom is too small? Its tight around me even when I'm completely flaccid. I've had equally bad sexual experiences and still remained hard otherwise.

For the second part:

Do any of you occasionally use saliva for extra lubrication? We used all of the KY, and saliva is always on hand, so occasionally I'll use a little if shes kind of dry (she doesn't ever get really wet). How do the ladies feel about this? Mine always cringes when I use it.

03-31-2005, 10:37 PM	#1 (permalink)
innovis Crazy	Condoms too small? & Saliva as lubrication? First part, about condoms. Basically I let my girlfriend put the condom on when I was hard, accidentally got a wrinkle in it, she spends about 2-3 minutes working me in while on top, then says the wrinkle feels uncomfortable, so I try to get the wrinkle out but I cannot, and all the while "hes" unstimulated and like bleh, so of course he migrates south for the winter. So then shes like "do you not want to do it? Isn't my vagina enough of a turn on for you" or somesuchness, which I think is a really insensitive thing to say, but anyways, she won't "fluff" me to get me hard unless I go wash off the condom lube, so I do, come back, put on the condom. She gets on top, starts working it in again, he gets bored, 1 because there is pretty much no friction and 2 because when she is on top she does pretty much nothing to stimulate him. She does this kind of movement which manages to use all of her leg muscles but not move her vagina at all, because she hasn't learned after me telling her at least 20 times to do it a different way, and it feels like I'm just being bounced upon. At any rate, as I can feel him dieing again, I tell her to let me get on top, I try to get him in but he won't go because its too soft (the condom is still squeezing me when I'm unhard), so I try to wet her a little with some saliva (which I will ask about in the second part), and I get him in and he gets hard again. Eventually he dies again though. I am wondering if perhaps the condom is too small? Its tight around me even when I'm completely flaccid. I've had equally bad sexual experiences and still remained hard otherwise. For the second part: Do any of you occasionally use saliva for extra lubrication? We used all of the KY, and saliva is always on hand, so occasionally I'll use a little if shes kind of dry (she doesn't ever get really wet). How do the ladies feel about this? Mine always cringes when I use it.