when me and the husband first moved to the area, all i had was his friends. they completely embraced me and took me in, and i hang out with some of them by myself at times too - and i would be the loneliest person without them. it's so hard once you're out of school to meet new people. i'm really friendly and outgoing, and i never thought that would be the case, but it is. over time (we've been here a few years now), i've met some of my "own" friends, but for a long time - like a year, i never would have had any kind of life without his friends.
it's not as easy as you think - definitely talk to him about it.
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3. you may also have some conflict over your reaction to new stimili in a new place, and having your bf around from a previous location. hope that doesn't sound offensive, but i've found sometimes when i change locations i actually have a mild tendency to reject things associated with my previous situation, as i'm all about getting into my new place.
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Pigglet - on a side note, I am totally the same way - and here I just thought I was crazy or something!
