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I thought about how I wanted to answer this post and came back for it.
The most important thing for myself was realizing that I wanted my relationships and sexuality to be fun and enjoyable experiences. If I am not comfortable calling a woman or asking her out I let it go, it is healthier for me. Once you get past the need to pursue, the NEED to meet someone, things for myself have become much more relaxed and enjoyable. It has nothing to due with the caliber of woman I seek or my own self esteem, it has to do with what I enjoy and feel.
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