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I know it's the oldest saying in the book, but in order to really love someone, you have to love yourself. If I lost my S.O. tomorrow, I'd be hurt greatly, but I have my music. You need to have an identity without her. I find the most successful relationships are where each member of the pair has a completely independent life.
What are the essential parts of JamesB? Is it your job? Is it a hobby or an art that you might pursue? What identifies you as uniquely you? It has to be something outside of your ex or you won't be able to move on.
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Warden Gentiles: "It? Perfectly innocent. But I can see how, if our roles were reversed, I might have you beaten with a pillowcase full of batteries."
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