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Starlight, I sorta understand... you feel like you're putting more energy into both of your social lives than he is, and you feel it's maybe draining you a bit that he's free-loading on your ability to make friends? This is just my guess. I don't know if your feelings are good, bad, or neutral, but if you feel 'em, you'd better communicate 'em to your man. Are you telling him what you're telling us? In these (and most other relationship) situations, seems like the actual "content" of what's bothering you is actually less important than the communication of that content. Let us know how it goes...
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And think not you can direct the course of Love;
for Love, if it finds you worthy, directs your course.
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