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Old 03-22-2005, 08:02 AM   #12 (permalink)
Jesseboy
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I appreciate everyone's advice - but I don't think it has anything to do with foreplay. When we do have sex, she is very much into it and has quite a bit of fun - it's just that we seldom actually have sex.

I have considered just waiting for her to initiate it, but I think if I were to do that I may not have sex for the rest of my life

I just wish that there was some magical answer to fix this, although I realize that's just wishful thinking...

As far as I know, she would not feel comfortable going on any type of birth control where she actually has to actively take it, like the pill. We both feel safest using "automatic" b/c methods, like the shot, patch, ect.

I don't think I would feel comfortable relying only on a condom again - too risky at this point in our lives. To be honest, judging on the previously mentioned ability to take a pill on a regular basis, I too would prefer that she stay away from anything that she can forget to take...
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