Just to let the men know, not many women can climax from penetration alone. I had great sex for about a year and half with no orgasim. I thought that was just the way it was until I had sex with a different guy where I felt more open. I started to rub my clit while were having sex and that's the first time I experienced and orgasim while having sex or being penetrated. As I get older and have more practice, I have since been able to orgasim by penetration alone, but very rarely. One boyfriend was upset that he couldn't get me off by himself, but I just explained that it wasn't a big deal and either way it felt great. Maybe she would like some kind of roll playing, or whips and hand cuffs. You shouldn't feel like a dick because you want to have sex, that's normal. I've noticed that the longer the work up to sex the easier it is for me to climax whether it's by penetration or not. Anyway, just be patient, it sounds like you have no plans on leaving her and I think that shows that you really love her no matter what.
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