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I have tried a new technique with my SO. You see, I also realized that while we both love sex equally, I want it more often, which is characteristic of early 20-something males.
So, if we are lying in bed, or cuddling on the couch, I will just start caressing her..on her back...her arms...That will change into soft kissing, then into heavy kissing.
I had an issue I posted about her not initiating, and I know this is no real issue at all, because we have a great sex life.
Now, after kissing, and gentle caressing, it gets to the point where she gets sooooo worked up that she literally takes my hand and puts it in the nether regions.
If you are with her in bed, try giving her a massage, or even kissing her. Enough of that will definitely get the juices flowing.
Something else that I'm growing to love is kissing and caressing, but not having sex. I never thought I could do that, and yes I am left with a raging hardon, but it just seems to go deeper than that.
If you are with her and are cuddling, or playing, try not immediately going for her tits, or the mummy daddy button, instead, tickle her thights, caress her back and arms...see how it goes.
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