Should your SO make his/her own friends?
I'm not quite sure where this issue would go, but I thought it might fit into living...
Anyway, my bf and I moved from CA to NY less than a year ago because I wanted to move out here for school. He hasn't really made any friends out here except for friends that he's made through me... like, he'll talk to my friend's boyfriend or to my guy friends and go out with my group of friends, but since he doesn't have a group of his own, I don't have the luxury of doing the same... in other words, meeting new people through my bf.
He's sitting online with two of my friends now as we speak. I guess I'm a little bothered by this... I mean, I know he has a little bit more of a difficult time making friends than me, so I don't mind "sharing" friends, but I dunno why it still irks me a little bit. You guys always have good insight... so I figured someone might have a good answer.
*edit: don't get me wrong, I am happy that he has other people he can talk to now, but, I'm just confused as to why I feel a little bothered. Thanks for listenin
Last edited by Starlight4; 03-21-2005 at 07:25 PM..
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