Hello folks, as usual this is a branch off of another thread...
How do you all feel about the difference between going down on a man vs. going down on a woman? I hear some men complain that their women don't have the "stamina" that the men do for oral sex, and that's why a lot of guys don't cum from bjs alone.
Personally I think it has little to do with "stamina" and a lot to do with anatomy. Eating a girl out is completely different from sucking on a guy's erect cock... the former requires interaction with a mostly flat (or inverted) surface, with little penetration into the mouth (unless she has a huge clit or something). I can imagine I'd be able to last a long time doing that, once my tongue was up to par!
Bjs, however, require fitting a long, hard cylinder in the mouth and then doing creative things with lips and/or tongue at the same time... (and having something squirt down the throat at the end, which can be either pleasant or not, depending on the guy's taste and the gag reflex). So how are the two oral acts even comparable? Not saying one is harder than the other, but it bothers me when some guys boast of their oral stamina and look down (after going down
) on girls who can't "keep up." [Note: my bf doesn't complain, and as I've told you all he's quite patient with everything we do... but I've heard many others talk about this on TFP and I see girls feeling bad about it, which ain't right.]
As for me, I do have a hard time maintaining sensation in my mouth when giving bjs... my lips go numb after about 15-20mins, then my jaw starts to go numb and I can't really do anything useful for my bf after that. I want to give him really good bjs
(and I've had decent results in making him cum), and will continue to practice, but I also wish I could keep my mouth from going numb. Does anyone have comments and/or tips??? I know I'm not the only one with this issue...