All great answers.
I'll throw in my two cents by saying people underestimate the power of anxiety. If you're nervous or tense about something, your vagina will reflect that by becoming tighter. It's a muscle. You have to learn how to relax. Easier said than done, I'm sure...but relaxing is one of the most important pieces to enjoying sexual experience.
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