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Originally Posted by Bunnybear
Then again, I was really nervous, so I'm sure I brought it on to myself, then.
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bingo.
if you're nervous about being penetrated, then it will be a lot worse the first time you're with your boyfriend. you NEED to learn to relax about it... so i'd start small and work up to it.
start with fingering yourself... but make sure you're relaxed. don't think about your finger going inside of you, don't even watch when you do it... just lay back and think about something else that makes you happy. eventually you'll get more used to having something in there, both physically and emotionally... and then it won't be so painful when you are ready to be with your boyfriend. don't rush it though... it will take time.