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Originally Posted by onesnowyowl
My first time was decidedly worse than going to the dentist, pain-wise. But because I chose the right person to be with it wasn't as weird and awkward as it could have been.
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you know, based on your experiences and a lot of other ones i've heard / read about, i am even more convinced that i have no hangups about having sex with a virgin. seems like a lot of guys have that fantasy - i've never had that experience, and i don't know if i could handle hurting my lady friend that way. i think i would go limp.
but then again, maybe not. i can be a little bastard too...
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Originally Posted by onesnowy
Sex really didn't become "fun" and "interesting" until about a month after my first time...when everything finally stretched out to the point of being pain-free.
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i can't remember how long it took to really get used to it. i always had fun - girl was smoking hot and i was so in love i probably made other people nauseous - but that's different from having any idea what the hell you're doing. i remember unrolling condoms
before putting them on for a while. try getting one on
that way. actually, don't. actually, you don't have a penis.
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Originally Posted by onesnowy
Now it's always fun and interesting...so that's something to look forward to.
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and that's how it should be. so would you suggest our virgin lady here just concentrate on trying not to seem like she's in foo-manchu-style-flaming-vagina-stretch pain? Or to just try to find a mild sadist for her first?
etc.