Originally Posted by pigglet

You know, maybe I'm just a weirdo or something, but I'm not getting all the And God hath said "Thy first time, each time, must be awkward and weird...sacrifice me a goat" stuff from everyone. I think it can be awkward and weird, but I'm so much more thinking about terms like "fun" and "interesting" and "man I could barely wait for that to go down" and "when can we do it again, if ever" and "yippee" etc. I don't see why getting your swerve on for the first time with someone has to be like going to the dentist - I kind of like to think about it more along the lines of going to an amusement park ride you've not been on yet...but you've been on one kind of like it, and you're raring to go. maybe it's just me.