former newt

let me give you a guy's perspective: if he really wants you, there'll be a good chance that he'll be more focused on maintaining his poise than on analyzing you (other than the hotness he sees in you.) in other words, its very possible that he'll be so analytical of his own actions that he'll miss anything you do that you may think is awkward. just don't do or say something that would make him think he's an idiot. if he really wants you, he'll be satisfied if you just do it like you mean it and make him feel like he did ok. my advice: just relax and realize that in most cases, the girl's in charge. he'll be trying to please you, so just sit back and encourage him. most likely, he'll think you're great, and even if you know you aren't he'll think its his problem.

just telling you as a guy what i'd be feeling. go get him!