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Originally Posted by ei555
Thanks for your replies. Yes I am a virigin female, and not that close to that "first time" yet just because I've never been even near a serious relationship. I was just wondering last night because I'm a pretty shy and anxious person, but I don't want to be all "weird" in bed. I know that typically when that time comes to get your groove on, the guy really doesn't care if there's some extra pudge or you say the wrong thing, right? Or am I all wrong 
..Looking forward to that awkwardness for sure  |
My first time was just a couple years ago and I remember it pretty vividly. My biggest piece of advice is to wait for someone you're comfortable with--completely comfortable with, and someone you know will be sensitive about your first time. Though it's not the same for all women, my first time hurt like a bitch.
My mom used to say I'd be a great lover because I "read about it in Cosmo so much." (snicker snicker) The underlying point there was that there's only so much reading you can do...good sexual technique takes practice. Practice takes time. Your first time is going to be awkward and weird. Your first time with any new partner is going to be awkward and weird.
You just have to accept that and get over it.