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Comminication is really important in a relationship, I know that I've probably said this about a thousand times, but it's true. You need to speak to her about this, asking us will only give you so much details but you need to know her reasons for not wanting this. Has she done is before? It could be from her past/childhood. If she doesn't want to talk about it after you bring it up, just leave it alone and see where it leads. It's more than apparent that she doesn't want to be bothered with this, so try not to pressure her or make her feel that sex is all you want. Whether she is going away or not, just let her know that you are willing to wait, let her understand that you will be with her whether she is ready or not. I wouldn't worry about this so much. I wasn't opened about sex with my boyfriend until after 2 years into our relationship and that's because I wanted to wait for personal reasons. She could have her reasons too, just speak to her about it. Good luck.
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