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You have to put yourself in the place where you can meet many women that might have something in common with you. Bars never worked for me at all. Parties never worked for me. That was because I get overwhelmed by the activity at bars and parties. Yes, I sometimes ended up with someone, but it was never someone I dated for very long. The best relationships I ever had prior to meeting my wife were women I met in class at college. I was very good at school and relaxed in the classroom. Thus, I was able to be myself. Find things that you enjoy doing and go out and join clubs or social groups that do them. When you are happy, you are going to project your best self and ultimately meet someone that is into you as you rather than how you look physically or any line you throw at them.
Saying that women are not into nice guys is a crock. Lurkette was completely correct in her post. Being a nice guy means being a nice person but not to be so accomodating that you are not who you are. If you meet a woman who doesn't seem to like you because you treat her nice, then that is a woman you wouldn't want to be with anyway. There were times I felt just like you years ago when I went through a fairly long dry spell at the end of college. Then I met my wife and everything changed. It only takes one.
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