Quote:
|
Originally Posted by lurkette
If you want to have a happy life, quit waiting for someone else to fulfill you and go live your life like you don't give a damn.
|
And that is when you will attract the opposite sex...as perverse as it sounds, it's true. If you live your life for you, do the things you want to do--others are attracted by that kind of self-confidence.
It's all in the self-presentation. If you come across as a funny, charming, self-confident, easy-going guy, women dig that. If you come off as needy or desperate--you couldn't scare them away fast enough. If you come across as an asshole, you won't attract the kind of women you want. Trust me.