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la petite moi · 03-14-2005, 03:56 PM

So nwlinkvxd is obsessed with sex. He never stops wanting sex. He says he is addicted.

I, however, do not like sex as much as he does. More properly said, I pretty much do not like sex at all. It is painful, burns, and I cramp in the stomach sometimes. I HAVE TRIED LUBE AND FOREPLAY. Even if I have an orgasm before, it still hurts a lot of the times. And hence, I don't like having sex as much. I am also tired a lot- I work in the early mornings (4:30am-5:30am) on weekends, and on weekdays, I wake up for school at 6:30 am. This also affects my lack of sex drive.

Basically: he wants sex so much, and I can't provide enough. I am getting horribly upset/depressed, to the point where my self-esteem is plummeting any time he brings up sex. If you read through some of his posts about our sex, they are all negative. It HURTS.

What should I do? How can I want sex more? How can I stop it from hurting so much (except for obvious answer of already-tried lube and foreplay)?

03-14-2005, 03:56 PM	#1 (permalink)
la petite moi Filling the Void. Location: California	I can never give him enough, and it's depressing me. So nwlinkvxd is obsessed with sex. He never stops wanting sex. He says he is addicted. I, however, do not like sex as much as he does. More properly said, I pretty much do not like sex at all. It is painful, burns, and I cramp in the stomach sometimes. I HAVE TRIED LUBE AND FOREPLAY. Even if I have an orgasm before, it still hurts a lot of the times. And hence, I don't like having sex as much. I am also tired a lot- I work in the early mornings (4:30am-5:30am) on weekends, and on weekdays, I wake up for school at 6:30 am. This also affects my lack of sex drive. Basically: he wants sex so much, and I can't provide enough. I am getting horribly upset/depressed, to the point where my self-esteem is plummeting any time he brings up sex. If you read through some of his posts about our sex, they are all negative. It HURTS. What should I do? How can I want sex more? How can I stop it from hurting so much (except for obvious answer of already-tried lube and foreplay)? Last edited by la petite moi; 03-14-2005 at 04:09 PM..