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Arguments can cause the spark to die down in a relationship. You haven't been together that long for either one of you to lose that initial flame, it's very important that you both recover those feelings and those interactions to make the relationship more stable. It's important also for heat and chemistry to be there, that's one of the foundamental things in a relationship that makes it strong. If you can't achieve that with him, then there are many other alternatives you can choose, like seek help, that always helps. Usually when in a relationship that has bitterness because of dumb things, we tend to withdraw, this is normal but that shouldn't make you lose your spark, speak to him, try to work on these minor issues. We all have arguments, sometimes over the stupidest things, but the keypoint is so become stronger after each one instead of getting weaker. Good luck with this, I do hope that you work it out.
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