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Hang in there Starlight, it will all work out. About a year ago I was in your exact same situation. We were living in a one bedroom and driving each other crazy. We were fighting over the little things and we ended up breaking up. He moved to another apartment in the same complex (I know its a little weird!) Since he's moved out we have started talking, hanging out more and have become very good friends again. We agree that not having enough space to be ourselves in started a lot of the fights. We didnt have the space to come home and relax and just be alone for a few minutes.
At this point I am not at all recommending breaking up, but you guys have to work some things out. If getting a bigger place isnt possible right now. Maybe sit down and come up with away for both of you to have some alone time in the apartment, because he's probably feeling the same way as you are.
If giving each other room the breath doesnt help the situation then like the other ladies said, maybe there are bigger problems in the relationship that you need to face. My ex and I are good as friends but we were not right for each other as gf/bf. We are much happier, and nicer to each other, now. Dont worry it will be ok.
GOOD LUCK!!!!!
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