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Originally Posted by Philangicality
I'm a virgin of 21 years. I am waiting for the right girl to come along but I seem to be having this reoccuring problem with women. I'll see a girl that I'm attracted to and most of the time I'll approach her. I'll talk to her, ask bashic questions pertaining to the situation and sometimes I'll go a little further and start flirting making inuendos, talking about feelings etc. I try to take things slowly. However there are certain girls that I'm a little more aggressive after. I always have sexual thoughts going through my mind with all females but some I tend to get more physical with like grabbing, brushing up against them, etc. I can't really tell if they like it or not since sometimes I get a positive response with a smile and sometimes It'll be a wierd look or whatever. I just can't get the question out of my mind if they enjoyed the experience or not and if I should pursue it further. Any thoughts or suggestions?
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Dude, don't be grabbing girls. They don't like it. Don't be brushing up against them. That's creepy. These kinds of behaviors will get you labeled "Perv" or "Sicko." Worse, you could get into serious trouble in certain situations. Most guys are like you in that we always have sexual thoughts going through our minds with every female we meet, but it sounds to me like your judgement about proper social behavior is way outta wack.