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I do want the relationship to work out, but sometimes I feel like we're just not compatible with each other. The thing is, we're both very strong willed and stubborn and it's hard to come out with a working solution that we both can use. I've tried to talk to him about it LOTS of times, but he's really quick to get defensive and of course, he doesn't think he is. He can't look to himself and think, "hrmm, maybe I have been acting like that. What can I do to better the situation?" His way is to make me understand how he's not doing something. "I'M NOT YELLING AT YOU!" Haha, you can't yell to someone that you're yelling at them. Maybe I just WANT him to be the one and I don't really know why...
I feel like the living space might be a problem, but not as much as you guys might think. We usually don't see each other until 7 at night. I just feel very disconnected from him now...
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