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It's really obvious that, right now, the lady is focussed on personal goals, other than building the relationship with you into something marriage worthy. So the ONLY thing to do is declare a holiday. Keep in touch with her as a friend; one who likes her a lot, but isn't going steady with her or anything.
The next step is to get yourself out there chasing other girls. You need to broaden your horizon. Consider that this "first love" may not have been the ultimate for you, but a learning experience. Go find the next lesson.
When she comes back, and hopefully, your calendar is pretty full of other fun with other women, then let her demonstrate some real interest in you. React coolly to her, as rather platonic friend would. If she really wants to build some heat in your relationship, let her work at it a little bit.
Either way, you win. You gain valuable insight by seeing other girls, and you get your first love to earn your interest in her by being more aloof. It's all good.
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Trueheart
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