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i don't think you should tell her you love her, but i think you should kind of hint at it. obvioulsy if she's afriad of getting more involved with you, she has the capability to love you; and if you bring that out in her, she won't have any other choice but than to be faithfull to you. but making her want that kind of relationship is really a game more than anything... and if you realize that, then you have the upper hand. subtle hints like wanting to kick that guys ass is good, but if you actually followed through with it, she'd just be really upset and it would make her a lot less likely to want to keep you for her own. if you showed her you loved her without actually saying "i love you", and playing the "i don't expect you to care about me" card, and acting tough about your pain but still making it obvious it's there, there's a chance she'll feel more like she'd want to be there for you. do you know what i mean? i can't tell if i make sense or not. i think i can elaborate if you ever read this response, or care for me to elaborate
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