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Take a sabbatical. Call it what you want but make it clear to both of you that you are going to let the constant contact between you stop happening. She'll still be on your mind, but if you don't go around telling that to the world the world will let you get on with things. If in future you do find that when you are face to face again that you reconnect then that is all to the good. My sweetie and I separated as things got a little ragged between us - she went from Ontario Canada to be a nurse in Miami Beach while I moved out to Western Canada. A year later we got back together and we ended up married for 24+ years. Still married but separated - we love each other but the differences can get to be a bitch. Still, we allowed each other space when we were your age and neither of us regretted it. My 2 cents.
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And now to disengage the clutch of the forebrain ... 
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